Saturday, December 21, 2013

I'm a Christian. And I Do Theatre.


I only recently changed my major to theatre and previously I was a fine art major.  I love creating art, but I found it to be a deeply personal, self-expressive release that I didn’t want to grow to hate as an occupation.  Theatre has always been a passion of mine, but I also didn’t have much experience in high school so I thought I would be laughed at for choosing to pursue it.  When I was an art major, I found a connection to God through creating.  Though, I found myself more and more looking to art that was dramatic, dealt with the anatomy of the human body, focused on emotion and perceptions.  I love people.  I found my art reflecting 1 Corinthians 13: 4-8:

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.  It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.  Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.  It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.  Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.”

I feel like God has led me to connect with people.  When I switched my major, somewhat on a whim and somewhat exploring my options because I was discontent with my current major, I found my connection with people.  Humans were created in the likeness to God.  Through studying theatre, specifically the human figure, intellect, and emotion, my awe of the Creator was heightened.  Theatre is Christ-like because of similarities with Jesus, how it can help with personal growth, and how it teaches reconciliation.

I think of how Jesus bonded with people while on earth.  He wasn’t pretentious.  He was genuine and selfless.  He thought about others and not Himself.  I’m reminded of Jesus crying out to God when he’s being crucified to forgive his tormentors because they don’t know what they’re doing.  Christ incarnated Himself as a human being just as an actor takes on a character in a play.  In theatre, we have to bond with and trust each other.  As actors, we need to be vulnerable and as a team, work together without judgment.  Stories open up opportunities for self reflection and awareness just like Jesus did with His parables.  

Theatre has helped me grow as a person and I want to share that reflection and euphoria with other people.  When I develop a character, I can better understand how someone can do a selfish act without foreseeing the damage it could do to others.  Theatre has helped my utilize empathy and helped me to forgive, trust, understand, connect, invest, and encourage other people.  I believe theatre is redemptive and develops acceptance of differences in people.  I can admit my faults and improve spiritually in a more open manner than I ever had before.

I have a passion to reach people who go voiceless.  I want to hear what they have to say.  I’ve always said you have to watch out for the quiet ones because you don’t know what they’re thinking.  I can relate to brokenness.  I like to invest in people who consider themselves outcasts, worthless and unwanted.  Also this year, God has highlighted people for me to reach out to who are different socially and usually thought of as eccentric or weird.  I’ve found a worshipful practice of expressing vulnerability and brokenness to others through testimony.  Those stories unite Christians in authenticity.  We all wear a mask in every day life that hides our sorrows.  It’s selfish to bottle that up.  Pain and joy are two things that are a part of the human experience.  How can we never talk about the pain in our lives?  It cuts out half of what we can relate to each other about.  Through these confessions, God redeems us.  When acting, I can forgive the wrongs my character has done because I realize that in some form, I’ve committed the same thing.

I think that the word “Christian” should be a noun and not an adjective.  So, I am a Christian and I do theatre.  I don’t want to be the one that needs to jump up and down squealing, “I’m a Christian! I’m a Christian!”  I hope that my actions spark curiosity about my faith.  Tying back to 1 Corinthians 13:4-8, I want to love and look at people in the same way as Christ did.  I know I can’t love perfectly; only God can, but I hope I impact others through God’s love.

Well, this'll be fun to read in the morning...


I hate these posts on Facebook that have all these “most amazing photos ever taken” or “look at this heartwarming story.”  I’m just over here sobbing; don’t mind me.  I also hate these Christian relationship posts about marriage or what kind of man has the true potential of love.  I even hate the posts of singleness, too.  They’re so sappy or liberating (not that I want to be in chains). I just hate them.  I don’t know why, but I do.

I’ve thought about marriage, but I never was one to obsess over and romanticize it.  I never planned my own wedding.  I’ve vaguely thought about what my dress should look like or certain ambiguous ideas here and there, but I don’t have a “my dream wedding” pin board on Pinterest.  In fact, I don’t know that I want to get married.  I might elope.  Or I won’t even have a man, I’ll stay alone.  I can’t plan these things.  Obviously, I’m not dead set against marriage or men to vow to singleness forever.  I’ve made the list of what I want in a man, but that’s not going to happen with precision.  Ev’ybody gots flaws.  Even if it’s just bad grammar.  Which isn’t a peeve of mine, by the way.

I might just be one of those people that demonize marriage.

I believe I’ve the potential to be a good spouse (Ew, rhymes with louse).  That doesn’t mean I deserve a lover.  That doesn’t mean a man on this earth will love me.  There’s no guarantee.  I guess I feel rather skeptical.  I’m not waiting, but I wonder if there will be a “single stage” + “married stage” in my life or just a “single stage.”  That would totally make it not a stage at all, but just life.  But all the world’s a stage and we’re all merely.. stop it!  Life ain’t Shakespeare.  Well, it probably is.. ugh.  Anyway, so I could then stop wondering if I’m going to be slapped in the face with a random dude with God’s booming voice saying, “He’s ‘the one.’ Go fetch.”  

I feel like my internal-isms get really confusing sometimes.  Maybe I should shut up. 

Nah, I really like to be coherent so let’s try saying it this way:  I’m a frickin’ stellar and phenomenal child of God (I like those adjectives, don’t you?) who isn’t granted a man in her life.  No one is granted a soulmate.  I don’t believe in soulmates.  Love is a choice which sucks because that means that love isn’t easy.  It puts the responsibility on each and every one of us.  It isn’t a magic spell that makes us fall in love, it’s hard work.  There’s not some mystical, involuntary, force that takes over a person to make them fall in love.  And I wouldn’t have it any other way.  I don’t want to believe it’s easy.  I feel like the whole soulmate complex is for people who can’t deal with rejection and need some way to cope. “Well it wasn’t meant to be because he just wasn’t ‘the one.’”  Sorry darling, the person chose not to love you.  

Damn, I’m heartless.

Also, I don’t know how to apply the Bible in my life.  There’s so much of it that seems a little off and I’m just like, “Do we throw the book out the window because it’s all “cultural” and has no place in our current lives?”

I should read it and not just listen to people talk about it. 

I am not a good person.  I never read my Bible and I almost never pray.  And I feel like I have no hope that God will bring good things into my life.  He didn’t promise me that.  But he did promise that He’d bring me comfort.  Well, sometimes I’m comforted by Him, but I’ve never had anything extremely bad happen to me.  “God doesn’t give you more than you can handle.”  Now I know that’s probably not really in the Bible, but I can’t help but wonder am I a wimp or something?  Does God not give me extreme hardship because I’d easily run from Him or fall apart?

Interesting idea.  We will never be happy in life because we aren’t meant to be happy.  Like, how people say we have evil in the world to appreciate and value the good.  What about our view of heaven?  How can we appreciate the glories of heaven if life on earth is happy as well.  This is our suffering stage until we are united in eternity.  If you only seek “feel good” happiness you’ll never achieve it.  Contentment comes from the desire to glorify God.

I do have the desire to know about God’s character, but I feel really down when I think that the truth can’t be certain.  I know God is truth and that’s that, but as far as truth about Him and what He wants for me, what He wants for other people, how He wants us to interact with each other, what He wants us to do.. all of that.. stuff is all opinion.  I’ll read the Bible and be a Christian with very individualized beliefs that I can be certain that some how, some where all the line, something will conflict with even the closest theologian to me.

I truly need to pursue being a better person for Christ.

I’ve always said I want to be content but not comfortable.  When you’re comfortable, you become stagnant. I always want to know everything, but realized it wouldn’t be good because then I would have nothing to strive for.  I’m not being a hypocrite here because I love that I want to know everything.  That desire is a good thing, but I’ll never be able to achieve it and I honestly don’t want all that knowledge.  “The surest way to bore people is to tell them everything.” I always remember random quotes without the names attached.  There would be no mystery in life to spark my curiosity.  I always want to seek knowledge and learn more about myself and other people.  If I knew everything I would be comfortable and that’s not good.  I am content with what I know now, but I’m not comfortable. I’m still antsy to learn.

With that being said, I’ve always had this emptiness inside me.  Everyone would say that emptiness should be filled with the Holy Spirit.  But if I’m a Christian, which I am, shouldn’t that be filled already?  What am I missing?  What is blocking me from having a deep relationship with Christ?  I tried filling it with people, places, activities, events, and even things--though I’m not very materialistic; I always feel like I have too much stuff.  Sometimes, there is fulfillment, but it never lasts and I hunger on for more.  I don’t know where to go from here.  I’m stuck.  I try and fail, try and fail.  Sometimes you think you got everything all together and it’s like a brick wall when you realize you don’t have it all under control.  We are a culture that prides itself on individuality and independence, but no one should be as independent as they want to be.  We need to rely on other people.  I'm trying to work on vulnerability and trust and not bottling everything up.  Don't know about you, but I think it's working. :P

Life is complex.  People are complex.  I’m complex.  Nothing’s simple.  So get that out of your head.

What is wrong with me? I should just go to sleep.  I get too cynical when I’m tired.

Oh and did I really just write a post about hating a certain type of post that ended up morphing into that very kind of post that I hate?